The Retreat Co. blog is where you'll find real stories from women who showed up solo and left with a new group chat, destination guides for places like Sun Valley and Jackson Hole, honest takes on solo travel and making friends as an adult, practical lists like what to pack for a ski trip, and the lessons the outdoors teaches you that nobody else does. Some posts will make you want to book a trip. Some will just make you feel less alone.

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Women Who Can’t Not: Powerful Pam

When Pam joined The Retreat Company’s ski retreat in Jackson Hole, she wasn’t just signing up for a ski trip. She was stepping into an unfamiliar experience: spending a weekend with a group of women she had never met before. What she found was far more than great skiing. She found connection, inspiration, and a reminder that it’s never too late to keep saying yes to new experiences.

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Women Who Can’t Not: The Woman Who Chose Expansiveness

For Margy, joining a ski retreat wasn’t entirely new territory. She had attended retreats before and understood the power of stepping away from everyday life. But this was her first ski retreat, and like many women, she still had questions, hesitations, and a busy schedule to navigate. What she found over the weekend was exactly what she hoped for: connection, adventure, confidence, and a reminder to stay open to what’s next.

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Women Who Can’t Not: The Teacher With The Need For Speed

After years of wanting to ski Lake Tahoe, Julie decided to fly across the country from Massachusetts, use two of her personal days as a teacher, and join a retreat where she did not know anyone. What she found was an adventurous weekend full of skiing, connection, laughter, new skills, and women who understood exactly why showing up mattered.

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Women Who Can’t Not: FIRST TIME SKIING OUTSIDE HER HOME STATE OF COLORADO

After a divorce, becoming an empty nester, and finding herself at a crossroads in life, Sally decided to do something she’d never done before: fly to a mountain she’d never visited, meet a group of women she’d never met, and join her first ski retreat. What she found in Sun Valley wasn’t just great skiing. It was proof that life can still surprise you when you’re willing to say yes.

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Women Who Can’t Not: The Woman Who Stopped Waiting

For years, Christina loved skiing but found herself running into the same challenge many women face. Her friends were busy. Her children were busy. Life was busy. Ski trips were always something that sounded great in theory but rarely happened in practice. Joining a ski retreat with women she had never met felt completely outside her comfort zone, but saying yes ended up opening an entirely new chapter of adventure, friendship, and confidence.

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Charlotte Lilley Charlotte Lilley

Why Solo Travel Feels So Scary (And What Most Women Get Wrong)

Taking a solo trip usually feels much scarier before it happens than it does once you’re there. In my experience, most women are not worried about the logistics of traveling alone. They are worried about what it will feel like to walk into a room full of people they don’t know.

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Women Who Can’t Not: The Australian Who Chased Winter Across the World

When Noa graduated from university in Melbourne, Australia, she decided to spend a season chasing snow across the world. What began as her first solo international trip became something more meaningful: proof that you can build genuine friendships, feel at home among strangers, and discover new versions of yourself in unexpected places.

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Women Who Can’t Not: The Mother Daughter Duo

Some trips are about the destination. Others become memorable because of who you share them with.

For Mel and Sarah, a mother daughter ski trip to Jackson Hole started with a simple invitation and turned into one of those weekends neither wanted to end. Between tram rides, summit waffles, skiing laps together, and meeting a group of women who instantly felt like friends, the retreat became more than just a ski trip. It became a reminder that shared experiences create memories that last far longer than the weekend itself.

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Women Who Can’t Not: The Repeat Guest Who Found Her Girl Gang

Sometimes one retreat becomes more than one weekend. It becomes proof that you can keep finding new versions of yourself, new ski friends, and new reasons to say yes.

Jessica first joined The Retreat Company for a Sun Valley ski retreat after her original travel plans changed. She came for the World Cup Finals, shared lodging, and a group of women who loved skiing as much as she did. Three retreats later, she has found local friends, unforgettable mountain memories, and a deeper appreciation for what happens when women choose collaboration over competition.

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Why Learning New Things as an Adult Changes Your Brain

Learning new things as an adult helps strengthen neuroplasticity, which is the brain’s ability to adapt, form new pathways, and stay mentally flexible over time. Experiences that combine movement, novelty, social connection, and challenge tend to support cognitive health especially well.

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The Leadership Skills Nobody Taught Me (But the Outdoors Do)

Some of the most useful leadership skills are learned outside, not inside a workplace. Time in the outdoors teaches people how to plan carefully, adapt under pressure, stay calm when things shift unexpectedly, and think more creatively, often because the stakes feel personal instead of professional.

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How to Make Friends as an Adult Without Forcing It

One thing that has been consistent across every retreat is how quickly connection forms once people are in a shared rhythm. You wake up in the same space. You spend the day doing something active. You come back, cook, sit around a table, and keep talking. Conversations are not cut short by schedules. They continue and deepen over time.

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THE MORE YOU FALL, THE MORE YOU LEARN: Jackson hole edition

Fireside chat in Jackson Holewith Kelli Jones, Noso Patches; Lily Krass Ritter, Beyond Skid; and Tana Hoffman, ILLA App. moderated by Charlotte Lilley, The Retreat Co Big thanks to these ladies in openly sharing their stories and experiences! Conversations like this remind us that falling is part of the process, and those moments are often where the most learning happens.

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It’s not about age, it’s about adventure

Our retreats aren’t defined by age, ability, or background. They’re defined by women who show up anyway. This is about pushing past the quiet doubts and discovering that the thing you were worried about was never the thing that mattered.

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The Radical Act of Wanting What You Want

Choice is often framed as freedom. But when our desires are shaped by expectations we didn’t create, how free are we really? The radical act isn’t just choosing — it’s asking, Is this truly mine? When women choose from honesty instead of obligation, self-trust grows, confidence steadies, and life begins to feel aligned rather than performed.

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WHAT TO PACK FOR A SKI + SNOWBOARD TRIP

Packing for a ski trip isn’t just about staying warm. It’s about feeling comfortable, confident, and ready to enjoy the experience both on the mountain and off. This guide breaks down what actually matters and includes a saveable visual checklist to make packing easy.

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I Said “Why Not?!” and Accidentally Launched a Five-City Winter Tour

What started as a “why not?!” idea to host a few ski-season kickoff parties turned into a five-city winter tour connecting hundreds of women across mountain towns. 50+ women-owned businesses as partners, community raffles, and incredible energy at every stop made the first-ever Snowdown Tour a powerful women’s ski community event! Here’s how a simple idea snowballed into a major ski season kickoff movement.

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